Learn to use your eyes to their full potential. Make constant eye contact when in conversation. Looking away(especially down) is a sign of inferiority and uncertainty.
Master the piercing stare. You know when someone looks at you and it feels
like they can see into your soul? Work on sharpening your gaze in the mirror. You’ll
know you have it when it’s intimidating to continue looking at yourself.
Master the one-eyebrow raise. This
one isn’t necessary by any means, but hey, why not? Pick a brow to
learn with and go look in a mirror. Raise both of your eyebrows but use
your hand to hold down the brow that you want to stay down.
Be mysterious.
Don’t let off everything about you and definitely leave out some major
details. There is something both alluring and mesmerizing about someone
who no one knows fully about.
Relax!
Yes, work is very important and productive but you need to take some
time to chill out everyday or you are going to burn out faster than a
candle with no oxygen
.
Work out those abs.
Above any other muscle group in the entire body, the abs are the most
important. They constitute your core, the center point of your body.
Keep your brain sharp.
The majority of people are stuck in ruts. They go to the samejob
everyday, hang out with the same friends and eat at the same places.
While that may feel safe, it’s not the most stimulating lifestyle for
your brain. Switch it up!
Choose your friends wisely.
You are affected far more than you think by the people you spend your
time with. Do your friends share your values? Do they encourage you when
you speak of your goals and dreams or do they scoff? Make sure the
people around you are conducive to the lifestyle you want to lead.
Do what you love.
We only live life once, so why wouldn’t you want to spend it pursuing
your bliss? To do anything else would be a tragic waste of the freedom
you are allowed if you are reading this right now.
Don’t burn bridges.
By that I mean maintain your relationships with people even if you
think you are never going to see them again. You never know when you
might need the help of someone you knew in the past (Life Secrets 2).
Keep a journal or diary.
It sounds like a very monotonous habit at first, but when you get into
it, that little book will become a great way to organize your thoughts
and track your growth over the years
Learn to use and trust your subconscious and intuition.
When you spend time in silence everyday, listen not for words but for a
feeling that tells you to do something. Do not mistake your own
reasoning and thoughts for those of your subconscious. If you can track
where the thought came from, (this thought led to that thought which led
to this thought, etc.) then it was not from your subconscious.
Come up with a life mantra.
You know, like “carpe diem” or “live life to the fullest,” but not as
cliché. Make it something that really resonates with you so that you
will actually stick to it (Life Secrets 2).
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